If you decide on publishing a blog, you have to be patient, its vital! After i finnished my blog, i wrote a few posts, but i was waiting for some comments, some feedback. I got a tiny bit impatient and i was beginning to think that the blog was just a waste of time. A miracle; I woke up the next morning checked my email..... i had 2 new comments, hallalooliya! 

What im saying is, keep writing your posts, even if it takes month for your first comment, just keep on writing. And when u do get ur 1st comment, it will feel like a big giagantic lift! Plus i never just got one i got TWO comments.

Please take this on board, if u decide on publishing your own blog. Stay confident, keep writing, advertise, but most off all dont lose your patience (like me ). Trust me, it'll pay off in the end.

Please feel free to leave a comment behind or even email me at chillinparadise_blog@yahoo.co.uk for any more blgging tips or advise you want. I will get back to you asap; when posting comments please leave behind your email, so i can get back to you.

Saw your post in FuelMyBlog about lack of visitors. My daughter is 14 and she blogs, same as I blog, but hers is for friends etc an mine is for everyone.
It takes time and patience to build visitors, post comments on other blogs with a signature line, join MyBlogLog, Technorati and WeBetUr.
Create viral links with others that have similar interests, likes etc.
You will find an example of viral linking on my blog using Reciprocal Review Carousel.
Time and patience.....works wonders lol.
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